AURAL SEX: MUSIC TO MY EARS
Long before Madonna’s highly - sexualized persona, long before MTV or Janet Jackson’ s, Superbowl, “wardrobe malfunction”, or her brother’s on- stage, on –screen crotch- grabbing episodes; well before The Stone sang “Satisfaction”, or “Let’s Spend the Night Together” and before Hendrix humped his guitar on stage, music was a source of information perhaps even motivation for young people regarding sexuality.
Well before Elvis ever swiveled his hips or P. J. Proby split his velvet pants, even before the birth of rock, music and sex were synonymous. In her 1998, TIME/CNN article about blues music, [Back to the Roots] Angela Davis said:
“the blues was the first musical genre to reflect black people’s experience of freedom in the U.S. … Formerly enslaved blacks enjoyed a new latitude in travel and sexuality …for the first time they could make their own decisions about sexual relationships. Consequently themes of travel and sexuality permeate the blues. Sexuality, in particular, came to symbolize freedom, and a preoccupation with personal relationships bespoke aspirations for a larger freedom”.
The comment addresses both the sexual nature of the texts evident in so much of the genre known as the blues as well as the personal, social, historical and psychological contexts in which the blues was created and consumed.
As history now records, blues artists from the south would move north to Chicago and other cities. Muddy Waters, Howlin’ Wolf, Sonny Boy Williamson and others would spread the appeal of the blues in clubs and in recordings for Chess Records and other labels.
In time those records would be shipped from American ports like Chicago and New York and arrive in European destinations like Hamburg and Liverpool. There they would be heard, emulated, copied, modified and shipped back in to the U.S. in the so called “British Invasion” by the Beatles, the Rolling Stones, The Animals, Cream and others.
In their 1979 article for Screen Education, [“Rock and Sexuality”] Simon Frith and Angela McRobbie used the term “cock rock” to describe much of the on stage performance of male singers as they interacted with microphone stands and their guitars.
“Of all the mass media, rock is the most explicitly concerned with sexual expression. This reflects its function as a youth cultural form: rock treats the problems of puberty , it draws on and articulates the psychological and physical tensions of adolescence; it accompanies the movement when boys and girls learn their repertoire of public sexual behavior”.
Interestingly enough they also suggested the rocks lyrics, “mostly follow the rules of romance”.
A content analysis of different music genres over a period of time, say from the 1950s through to the 1990s, would certainly reveal shifting attitudes about sex and romance including shifting broadcast standards about what could or could not be said in song, whether broadcast, recorded or performed.
In addition Billboard charts from various eras could certainly serve as some barometer of popularity indicating what songs, what sexual and romantic narratives were popular and which ones were not. That of course assumes that listeners are familiar with the lyrics and earlier research with protest songs and other styles suggest that young listeners did not always know the words.
The omnipresence of an iPod plugged into youthful ears may affect that awareness. But decades ago, we could find evidence that audiences did interpret some songs as having sexual content.
In Melbourne, Australia in 1977 one radio station invited listeners to call in and vote for “the dirty 30”. Among records chosen were, “She Said No”, “Roll Over, Lay Down and Let Me in”, “Lay Lady Lay”, “Come Together”, “Don’t Touch Me There” and “I Just Want to Make Love to You”.
Of course not all messages about sexuality address intercourse. Many song lyrics are about the nature of human relations, about sexual politics if you will. The notorious so-called double standard was well evident in songs by Dion and the Belmonts.
‘The Wanderer”, for example seemed to be about the male need for multiple relationships while “Run Around Sue” sang disapprovingly about similar behavior by females.
Young adolescent females growing up in the early 1960s could listen to girl groups like The Shirelles, The Exciters, The Supremes, as well as to solo singers like Cilla Black, Sandy Shaw, Dusty Springfield and Petula Clarke. These songs often provided scripts and narratives about the dynamics of relationships.
At times they seemed to position young girls and women as helpless victims of male philandering. This typically occurred in a single song but the cumulative impact of this ideology is worth considering and is certainly evident in one album by Lesley Gore.
These days Lesley Gore probably has 2 claims to fame. The first is her hit song, “It’s My Party and I’ll Cry If I Want To”. But the hit movie, The First Wife’s Club contained an early anthem of female liberation, “You Don’t Own Me”.
For the most part however, acceptance and resignation were much more typical of her message. Take the album titled, “I’ll Cry If I Want To”. Song on it include, “Cry Me a River”, “No More Tears Left to Cry”, “Cry and You Cry Alone”, “Cry” and “Just Let Me Cry”.
On the male side, one 60's group seemed to specialize in songs about seduction and loss of virginity. Pick up a copy of The Best of Gary Pucket and the Union Gap and you will have access to songs such as “Young Girl”, “Lady Willpower”, “Don’t Give In to Him”, “This Girl is a Woman Now” and of course, “The Pleasure of You”.
The emergence of the female singer-songwriter in the 1960s and 70s would begin to reveal a more independent identity for girls and women. While there was still obviously concern about the old question [“Will You Still Love me Tomorrow?”] It was also possible now to skewer male self-importance and get a hit out of it. Carly Simon’s, “Your So Vain” is a classic putdown.
In “The Carter Family”, Carly Simon also acknowledged the limitations of male sexual prowess.
“You used to make me moan in bed, but that can’t be enough
My friends complained your jokes were crude,
Your manners were too rough
Don’t know what I wanted, but I know I wanted more
Someone smooth, presentable to lend with my décor”.
A few years later, the soundtrack for the teen movie The Last American Virgin contained the Waitresses song, “I Know What Boys Want”. Not much evidence of female submissiveness in its lyrics:
“I got my cat moves
That so upsets them
Zippers and buttons
Fun to frustrate them
They get so angry
Like pouty children
Denied their candy
I laugh right at them”.
The pill and other developments had contributed to sexual if not economic liberation for many women. While rock narratives sometimes suggested combative relationships, at times they acknowledged sexual equality and an absence of romance.
In Bob Seger’s, ‘”Nightmoves”, we hear of early adolescent sexual experimentation.
“We weren’t in love, oh no far from it
We weren’t searchin for some pie in the sky summit
We were just young and restless and bored
Livin by the sword…
I used her, she used me
But neither one cared;
We were getting our share”.
Rock and pop were also able to chronicle the unwanted consequences of sex evident in “Love Child”, a 1960s hit for The Supremes as well as in Madonna’s, ‘Papa Don’t Preach” and in “Billie Jean” by Michael Jackson.
And the physical acts of sex had simply become explicit. I was a young teacher in my early 20s when a group of 8th graders introduced me to the Lou Reed album, “Walk on the Wild Side”. I liked the album then and I still do. I also had questions about some of the lyrics.
I had never heard or read the phrase, “giving head” before, so I asked a colleague from England what it meant. He quickly translated it into the slang expression that Australians used for the act.
Decades later Lil’ Kim released an album which of course carried a Parental Advisory Explicit Content Warning Label. The track “How Many Licks” showed the direction contemporary music had taken since ‘Walk on the Wild Side”.
Lou Reed was of course not the first to reference that sex act. Oddly enough that transpired when rock music met the Broadway musical in the late 1960s. The show was HAIR. The song title was “Sodomy”.
The lyrics were short and simple.
“Sodomy
Fellatio
Cunnilingus
Pederasty
Father why do these words sound so nasty?
Masturbation
Can be fun
Join the holy orgy
Kama Sutra
Everyone”.
If it was OK for Broadway apparently it was OK for the radio airwaves. I was sure I must have been mistaken while driving in my car when I first heard The Knack singing, “Good Girls Don’t”.
Surely I thought you can’t say that on the radio. I was wrong. The group’s big hit was “My Sharona” but “Good Girls Don’t” got plenty of airplay and contained the following verse.
“And it’s a teenage sadness everyone has got to taste
An in-between-age madness
That you know you can’t erase
Till she’s sitting on your face”.
We have moved a long way from the simple sexual innuendo of the 50s or the time when The Beatle’s most ardent desire was, “I want to Hold Your Hand”. Any kid today who has questions about the words in favorite songs can simply go to the Internet and get a printout so its right there in black and white.
If today’s lyrics lack subtlety they also lack the packaging previously known as album art. Like lyrics and the onstage performance of rock and pop stars, album art can also document shifting attitudes about sexuality in society- at least in that segment of society that consumed popular music.
The 1970s witnessed a marked departure from graphic art that depicted the group, the recording artist or a visual interpretation of the album title. Sticky Fingers with Andy Warhol depicted a close up of a male in a pair of jeans. The shot is from the waist down. The package [excuse the pun] included a zipper and a prominent bulge.
Fumble’s cover depicted 2 teens on a couch. Jump On It by Montrose was little more than a crotch shot and the 1972 cover for Flash simply seemed to reverse the shot. Boxer’s, Below the Belt, Sunburst by Be- Bop Deluxe, Juicy Lucy’s self-titled album and The Wetter, The Better by Wet Willie continued the trend.
Anyone looking for a good source of album art could do worse than to locate a copy of Album Cover Art edited by Storm Thorgerson and Roger Dean. Like changes in lyrics and musical genres, these artifacts serve as historical documents that comment on sexuality and commercialism in the 20th century. |