BETHANY’S TELEVISION
As a young teenager with no siblings at home I used television for company when my homework was done and household chores were completed. My parents were divorced. I lived with my father during those years. Though I had a TV in my bedroom I had no cable and my dad was the type of parent to randomly walk in to my room to check out what I was watching I was never mindlessly allowed to watch television.
My dad insisted upon news programs like the local evening news and PBS programs. Endless hours of Masterpiece Theater or A& E original movies were typically what we watched. I do not remember the names because I found them dull and would make up an excuse to call a friend or visit one of our neighbors.
Reception in my room was poor so when I did watch these shows I viewed them in the living room with my dad. He often asked what I found to be annoying questions such as: ‘Why do you think that character said that’? or, ‘Do you think those types of events could happen in real life?’. In the end it was easier to go outside and read a book. Unfortunately for me he would follow me outside and ask me the same type of questions about my reading material.
On the few occasions that I was allowed to choose programming I watched family oriented shows. The Andy Griffith Show was my favorite because my dad would just watch it and not ask any questions. Also I enjoyed the depiction of a single parent raising his child functionally rather than in the often strained relationship my father and I shared.
There were only 3 or 4 houses situated on the busy highway where our house was located, so I enjoyed watching small town life with its quirky local citizens.
The only 2 sitcoms I vividly remember watching are Growing Pains and The Cosby Show. For the most part I found sitcoms too formulaic and predictable to watch. I enjoyed the characters of Growing Pains because the kids on the program were able to do fun things that my dad never allowed. I sort of lived vicariously through them. I saw the characters of Mike, Carol and Ben as real kids who were able to have fun by having lots of friends over and having cool places to hang out. I thought that maybe reality could be that way if my dad would loosen up a little…… I was essentially watching families that I thought must somehow be better than my own family.
In my later teenage years and after I learned to drive I lived with my mother in a neighborhood that had a few kids my own age. The only 2 TV programs that I distinctly remember watching are the X Files and Profiler.
I enjoyed the X Files because though its characters were on alien-chasing missions they still had very real emotions. I could identify with their mission in life. I was finishing high school, trying to prepare for an unknown future and becoming at least what I thought to be adult.
It was a strange and difficult time of life for me, and I liked to see characters working out strange problems, even if they were not like my own.
Profiler was a show about a single mom and her daughter. The mom was being stalked by a killer, and he was always at the back of her mind as she worked at the FBI as a profiler, along with trying to protect her daughter. At the time when I was watching that show, it was just my mom and me. The attraction to this show was that my mom was being stalked by a killer as well- cancer.
Cancer was trying to kill my mom while she was trying to support and protect me. Mom and I watched this show together, and she never asked me any questions. We would sit on her bed and she just allowed me to watch and think whatever thoughts I wanted. It was really not so much the show I liked. Instead, it was the time we spent together. Like the lead character on Profiler, my mom survived the attack by her potential killer. She and I still agree that we liked watching the show together.
[ Bethany Bevins- middle grades teacher ] |